I was very intrigued by tracking Chacko's progress from his younger self to his older, educated self. One thing from that time period that I found really reflected his and Margaret's relationship was that she loved Chacko, but even more, she loved the self acceptance she gained through him. And I think it was a two way street.

Although that might not sound like the healthiest relationship, I think it actually is. I think that you should be with someone that not only do you love/care about, but also someone who makes you embrace yourself as fully as possible.