do you think that Estha and Rahel retain that same "siamese soul" even when they have grown up? whenever the book describes them together when they're older, they seem distant and it seems like they have grown apart, yet it still describes Estha being able to feel Rahel in his mind. is it balanced? their separateness and togetherness? do they still have that connection? can the connection be the same but have grown with the children?